Let’s face it, parenting is not easy. You’re overwhelmed. You don’t know where to begin and you’re worried things will never get better. Everyone in your house feels your stress, but you don’t know how to let it go, and so you stress more.
Are you exhausted by the power struggles over homework and chores? Does the sibling rivalry make your home feel more like a war zone? Diffusing the tension in your home is a lot easier than you think with positive discipline techniques.
Raise a child, not a cyborg! Is it getting harder and harder for you to relate to your child? Does your child emotionally overreact often? Are you concerned about your child’s lack of empathy? Does their sense of entitlement leave you scratching your head? Relax, we got this!
Feel like your house is a verbal MMA ring? Or worse yet, a physical one? Don’t throw in the towel just yet! Build your protagonist skills to end the constant bickering today.
Does your child need to have the last word? Is their mouthy attitude on your last nerve? Hold onto that bit of patience left and learn the artful skill of effective communication that ends the back talk once and for all.
Is the tug of war draining your energy? Quit battling it out with your child over who’s the boss. Learn to become a protagonist parent and claim the title with grace for both of your sakes.
TYS parent coaching services help you to connect with your child emotionally. Does it feel like an impossible feat to relate with your child? Is connecting with them like learning a new language? The good news is that breaking the language barrier is a lot simpler than you thought.
Positive discipline parent coaching: protagonist parents build each other up!
Once upon a time in a tropical paradise, there was a carefree mom living a fantasy with her 5 wonderfully perfect cherubs. Basking in the sun on the sugary-white sandy beach, she sighed a long sigh, allowing the gentle breeze to carry her troubles from a far-off land of chaos, dysfunction, and deceit away forever. Never before has she been so grateful to watch her darlings frolic in the crystal blue sparkling water and listen to their precious laughter. The end-
If only… That sounds like your typical theatrical ending to an oppressed woman’s triumph over her abuser, except in the movies she usually has less kids to make the situation slightly more manageable. But this isn’t a movie; this is real life. And in real life transitions are not a piece of cake ending on a beautiful beach paradise. In real life, single parenting is a struggle too, even after the calamity of an abusive home has been washed away, or– especially after.
…Owner of True You Solutions since 2010, I am a certified positive discipline parent educator providing frustrated and overwhelmed parents and teachers with the skills and tools required to strengthen the relationship with their children and transform chaos to order. Whether you are single or married, have a dysfunctional past or a dysfunctional present or neither, my style of coaching BUILDS UP protagonist parents & teachers…
Our childhoods play a role in our parenting style. Maybe you are desperately trying NOT to repeat your parent’s mistakes. Maybe you are trying too hard to be perfect. Maybe you are chasing some illusion of what you think parenting is supposed to look like from the outside. As a result, you are unhappy. You worry that your children may be unhappy. Parenting for you is often not fun but instead is overwhelming.
Whatever internal conceptions you may have about parenting may very well be getting in your way inducing stress. Stress is another word for fear. And when you act out of fear and make decisions with the sole purpose of moving away from fear, your direction is misguided. The True You Solutions signature style coaching puts a focus on identifying your underlying motive. Is it Love or is it Fear? All decisions are rooted in one or the other. Are you sure your decisions are rooted in Love? How do you know for sure? Isn’t it about time you find out so you can move towards creating realistic parenting goals and find the peace and joy that comes with being a parent?
Frustration and feelings of overwhelm creep up on every parent. Questioning your ability to be a great parent only shows how much you care, which proves you can do this parenting thing! Coaching by Rebecca-Ann holds a strong focus on the relationship you have with your child and considers your personal perspectives and interpretations in order to receive the desired results.
True You Solutions founder and coach, Rebecca-Ann can relate to the fear and the stress being a parent to five children of her own through an unhealthy marriage, the tumults of divorce and custody battles, and as a single mom. Sibling rivalry does not take a break because you are having a bad day. Bedtime battles do not subside because adulting comes with its own battles. Work with a coach who knows and understands the reality of parenting through challenging circumstances because she has been there, too.
Are you playing the waiting game? Waiting for the toddler years to pass so you can breathe again? Or for the school-age years to pass to be heard at normal decibels again? Are you biting your tongue waiting out the teenage years so you can speak without getting snapped at? Don’t waste another day waiting out the storm, because storms are inevitable. Peace is waiting for YOU to rise above it.
Some days you feel like the invisible mom, or maybe the mute mom. No matter what you say, how you say it, how loud, or
Raising five dirt-digging, tree climbing, rock collecting, grass rolling little darlings while married to a construction worker who was always in the middle of some
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